Bishop Melvin Wheatley

Excerpt from book, Beyond Acceptance:
 
"I am an enthusiastically heterosexual male.  Is my heterosexuality a virtue?  A sign of righteousness?  Either an accomplishment or a victory of some kind on my part?  Of course not.  I had nothing whatsoever to do with my being heterosexual.  It is a mysterious gift of God's grace communicated through an exceedingly complex set of chemical, biological, chromosomal, hormonal, environmental factors--totally outside of my control.  My heteroseuxality is a gift--neither a virtue nor a sin.
 
What I do with my heterosexuality, however, is my personal, moral, and spiritual responsibility.  My behavior as a heterosexual, may therefore, be very sinful--brutal, exploitative, selfish, promiscuous, superficial.  My behavior as a heterosexual, on the other hand, may be beautiful--tender, considerate, loyal, other-centered, profound.
 
Precicely the same distinction between being a heterosexual and behaving as a heterosexual applies to homosexual persons, unless you and I are to be guilty of that lowest blow of all, and that is to work by double standards. 
 
Homosexuality, quite like heterosexuality, is neither a virtue nor an accomplishment.  It is a mysterious gift of God's grace communicated through an exceedingly complex set of chemical, biological, chromosomal, hormonal, environmental factors--totally outside of my homosexual friend's control.  His or her homoseuxality is a gift--neither a virtue nor a sin.  What one does with one's homosexuality, however, is one's personal, moral, and spiritual responsibility. 
 
Behavior as a homosexual, may therefore, be very sinful--brutal, exploitative, selfish, promiscuous, superficial.  Behavior as a homosexual, on the other hand, may be beautiful--tender, considerate, loyal, other-centered, profound.
 
With this interpretation of the mystery that must be attributed to sexual orientation, both heterosexual and homosexual, I clearly do not believe that homosexuality is a sin."